get my 5 Nice gal mistakes you must change to attract real, lasting love.

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Are you too “nice”?mj

  • Are you a single woman looking for your soulmate, and you’re ready to create a real love, lasting relationship?
  • Do you feel worn out by painful disappointments in the past that have chipped away at your self-confidence, self- worth and positive belief in love?
  • Do you have a hard time trusting men, relaxing into the certainty that you’ll be loved, accepted and adored?
  • Even though you know better, do you over-give, try too hard or accommodate to “secure his love” only to feel more anxious about getting close and opening your heart?
  • No matter how hard you try to make a relationship work or perfect yourself, do men undervalue you, take advantage, pull away or disappear?

Then you are in the right place.

I’m Maryjane Kapteyn.

I coach NICE, nurturing & giving women
who are sick & tired of not having
a fulfilling, long-lasting relationship
with a really good, loving man.

mj-fistYou have a big-heart.

You’re nice, intuitive, loving, compassionate and sensitive to others. And too often, people, especially men, have taken advantage of your generous heart and empathy by manipulating your natural desire to connect, belong and be loved.

I’m so sorry.

I understand the pain of being misled, used and taken for granted. I know what it feels like to fall into the trap of being “too nice” by perfecting, over-giving, pleasing and trying hard to get the guy.

Over-giving, accommodating, pleasing, perfecting, and supporting will always make you feel less than, worthless or not good enough.

 

It’s time to trust you’re worth loving
and are completely deserving
of a relationship without having
to do more, give more, or be more.

 

“Nice gal’s” stay too long in the wrong relationship, act like doormats, over-give by placing their needs last, hold onto the false belief that their love is enough to overcome huge obstacles, trust blindly and ignore red flags, tolerate less than, fall for the emotionally distant and unavailable man, change to please and accommodate a man’s wants, and get too attached too soon.

They do this in the hopes of securing love, validation, attention, affection, connection and approval.

These attempts to “get love by loving” leave nice gals feeling insecure, needy, depressed, desperate, secretly resentful, anxious, fearful and lonely which ensures no man feels a captivating, enduring, passionate, heart-based love for her.

It’s not about perfecting yourself for a man, but being the best you, for YOU.

I guarantee, you’re not single because there are no good guys out there, but because you consistently chosen men who can’t, won’t or don’t love you and consistently push away love with your “too nice” ways.

 

WHEN YOU START TO CONNECT TO YOUR
TRUE CONFIDENCE & SELF-WORTH,
YOU GET TO EXPERIENCE THE KIND OF
AMAZING THINGS MY CLIENTS DO, LIKE:

 

  • mj-pinkEasily attracting high-quality men, who are givers and who freely offer attention, affection, gifts and support.
  • Feeling content, confident, and relaxed, trusting love is on its way. All frantic and anxious attempts to get or impress a man fade away.
  • Free of the fear of rejection or heartache, all habits of trying, perfecting, pleasing, chasing and accommodating fade away.
  • You feel whole, happy and secure, so that everyone, including commitment-worthy men, can see, appreciate and fall in love with the REAL YOU.
  • A renewed energy and enthusiasm for life bursts open creating more connection, fulfillment, passion and purpose.
  • Dating becomes fun, uplifting and inspiring, ensuring an effortless and quick path to that special love.
  • The hard edges and mistrust created from past hurts, disappointments, and heartache, heal and soften so you can receive love.
  • Sassy, “I’m a goddess” self-love ensures you feel free, confident, worthy and relaxed (because you know you’re value and have nothing to prove).
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