It’s subtle or not so subtle, but the habit of over-giving and over-doing can creep in the minute you ‘like’ a guy. In fact, the more excited you are about him, the more feelings you begin to develop, and the more you crave his time and attention. Naturally hopeful, Nice Gals can easily get caught […]
Pablo Picasso said, “There are only two types of women – goddesses and doormats.” … Which are you? Do you give more than you get? Do you sacrifice, accommodate, and please for fear of losing his love? Out of excitement, do you go all in or make yourself too available? Do you compromise your […]
What do you do when life hasn’t turned out as you hoped, planned or expected? For starters, you stayed strong and survived. (that’s huge!!!!) Second, what happened wasn’t necessarily the cosmic plan of the universe or choice. So, stop beating yourself up with woulda, coulda, shoulda. There’s a trick of the mind that when the […]
Attention from a man was a powerful hook that would draw me in like a moth to a flame. The romance would burn hot and fast with the pleasure and the sting. Inevitably the fantasy would fade and ‘morning after’reality would set in days, weeks or months after, leaving me heartbroken. I use to fall […]
– No More Nice Gal Client I’m getting more and more emails from late in life Nice Gals who are opting to be single. Worn out from the drama they’re committing to their careers and personal development, since they no longer trust they can find happiness with a good, loving and emotionally present man. They […]
Do you only feel comfortable with “good” feelings – you know, joy, excitement, happiness? What do you do with the hard emotions, such as, sadness, anger, disappointment, loneliness, shame, and resentment? Valentines Day can be a difficult day. Reminders of coupledom everywhere can equal longing and loneliness. It is tempting to race for an emotional […]
How to end false starts, heartache and disappointment
to attract Mr. Right (without settling, being a doormat or trying hard.)