Oops, I Did It Again (Nice Gal Mistake)
(this is personal)
Oops, I did it again. Despite my undeniable spiritual connection to my partner, I unconsciously chose a man who wanted me to take care of him and fix his problems. I walked into a blended family, post-divorce mess. Yikes. Which means… part of me is messy as well.
Relationships are a mirror. you attract what you are, not what you want.
The giver attracts the taker.
The empath attracts narcissist.
The introvert attracts the extrovert.
There’s no blame here, I take complete responsibility for attracting from my nice gal pattern. Plus, admitting all the ways, I triggered him and failed to be my most loving self when I choose to withdrawal my affection and support.
This may sound strange, but I’m excited for this opening so I can deepen my commitment to self-love and being the embodiment of divine love I aspire to.
I have more healing to do.
I spent my summer getting over my blame and complaints, confronting where I needed to get clean.
I’ve stopped overworking and am giving myself permission to sleep, rest and play. I fired my too demanding, nothing is ever good enough; ‘can’t be pleased’ clients. I’m exercising again and making friends with my beloved juicer. I’m relaxing in my role as mom, taking the anxiety-ridden pressure off to do everything right and delighting in play with Adam. I’m not stuffing my feelings down with food and in deeper recovery for this love-avoidant addiction.
Like, all my beautiful, brave clients, I’m releasing another layer of my ‘need to be needed’, over-giving stuff, so I can LOVE and BE LOVED, instead.
my love life mirrored my childhood… loneliness, hopeful- waiting for love and attention, deep disappointment and finally depression and despair.
I’m happy to say, I’ve broken that cycle. No more despair, heartache or anger. No more unhealthy attachment or disappointment, only healing and a feeling of wholeness, self-worth and trust. Plus, the bonus faith, that everything is supporting me perfectly to keep evolving and growing. So, all is well.
If you relate (even just a bit) know the solution is simple. Acknowledge the Nice Gal misstep (lovingly without condemnation) so you can align with your innate strength and most loving, worthy and confident self.
Do it with support so you don’t feel alone, flawed or isolated. No More Nice Gal Community.
Do it with a proven structure so you don’t stop yourself due to overwhelm or second-guessing.
- IF you’ve dated unavailable, emotionally absent, addicted, needy, unreliable, broken or lost men…
- IF you avoid your feelings and fear closeness because you don’t know how to connect comfortably…
- IF you’ve been abandoning your dreams, wants, hopes, happiness and purpose (to help others)…
- IF you relate to not having had your emotional needs met…
- IF you long for a passionate connection and believe love can overcome anything…
- IF you’re ready to IGNITE your real self who is worthy, secure, confident and strong.
NO MORE NICE GAL! Isn’t about being a shutdown, walled up, angry, bitter b$&tch. It’s not about being unkind. It’s not about being selfish, hateful or demanding.
It’s about loving you, setting up sassy, self-loving standards to live by and committing to real love.
It’s about BELIEVING IN YOU, STANDING UP FOR THE LIFE YOU WANT AND LIVING HAPPY, FULFILLED AND FREE. (And giving back so others can do the same).
NO MORE NICE GAL is about letting go of the patterns that BLOCK LOVE, keep you feeling alone, not good enough, frustrated and stuck.
- Overcome top 5 nice gal habits
- Stop the cycle of fear, insecurity and starving for love
- Identify toxic love matches you need to avoid
- Create an intuitive, personal 90-day dating plan to the love you want
- Simple ways to ignite your most irresistible, secure, confident and worthy self
The problem isn’t being nice, kind, loving, sweet and sensitive – it’s being too nice, putting yourself last and choosing the hard path to love and happiness.
Start valuing you to get the love you want. JOIN NOW!
