GOD IS BIGGER THAN ANY MISTAKE
The wounds of failed love and betrayal can stack up fast, loading us up with resentment, mistrust, shame, blame, self-doubt, and anger.
While these well-established defensive mechanisms keep harm out, the good also gets pushed away.
I truly believe that God is bigger than any mistake, inadequacy, challenge or limitation; more powerful than anything anyone has ever done to you, or anything you may have done. You may feel broken and worn-out, but bigger than any self-defeating pattern is the power to heal and transform into your true worth.
Waiting for you is a powerful destiny to be fulfilled when you decide to trust and say YES! Christine Caine says, “God consults your past to make your future.”
This has never been truer. If my love life moved along hunky-dory, no hiccups of settling for less or pleasing to be loved, NO MORE NICE GAL wouldn’t exist. I couldn’t save you from everything I already know to avoid.
The mess of the past can become your message, what you stand for, and the strength to re-create. Even when it’s sad, or overwhelmingly hard, don’t doubt the truth of good embedded in the pain.
Be strengthened not by hoping for a good man, but empowered by knowing you’re worth the kind of relationship you imagine. Focus on loving yourself beyond a disappointing past, so you can step into a self and future that is more than good enough.
I’m here with you every step of the way.
Love,
P.S. I love this song! It reminds me that my worth is already determined by God – no trying hard to measure up required. The lyrics speak to releasing shame, regret and all the heavy burdens we carry after enduring emotional pain. Whether you’re Christian, spiritual or other, I hope the core of its message uplifts your heart.
