You’re Worth Loving!
By Maryjane Kapteyn
My message is strong and persistent: ‘You’re Worth Loving’.
Life radically and beautifully changes when you know your worth.
If I had felt WORTHY walking into my adulthood, all the success, happiness and love I desired would not have eluded me.
I would not have endured so much disappointment and pain. I would not have lost my money, time, health, happiness and self-esteem hoping for a man’s love.
I would not have given myself away to be loved.
COST OF NOT HAVING SELF-WORTH LOOKS LIKE…
- Isolation, depression, anxiety, emptiness, and grief
- Never achieving your full potential out of self-doubt
- Rejecting good things for fear of failure or disappointment
- Ignoring your intuition, and trusting blindly
- Going broke to give, please, or avoid conflict
- Losing your natural trust and sweetness to bitterness, anger, and resentment
- Closing your heart for fear of being taken advantage of
- Never experiencing the healing power of unconditional love, (only being valued for what you do, give or have)
Simply put, without self-love you spend years struggling and missing out on your best life.
Over-givers need to put themselves first in relationships. Radical self-care and unconditional love restore the balance of seeking approval through good works. It is the key to Nice Gal’s having everything they want and more.
If the woman I am today could talk to my younger self, I would tell her to:
- Put her desires, wants and needs first.
- I would ask her to love herself.
- To stop tolerating crap treatment and settling.
- To stop worrying so much and just live an awesome life, trusting love would come.
- Stop trying so hard to earn others approval and attention
Take my word for it, regret is humbling and very sad.
My mess is my message, my pain my triumph and my regret my motivation. With full confidence and belief, I can say, ‘I am Worthy’.
My practice is to act into this worth, daily. I invite you to do the same.
Breaking free from loving too much, starts with no longer settling for too little.
There’s a FORMULA for getting the love you deserve: a way to recover the strength, creativity, joy, and wisdom that lives inside of you.
There’s a step-by-step process to break your too nice ways and feel worthy of love. If you allow me, I’ll show you how.
Embedded within my No More Nice Gal method are 7 Love-Worthy Steps.
The first step is PUT YOU FIRST (PYF).
If you’re in a relationship that is holding you back from your dreams, making you feel less than and not meeting your needs, PYF means setting boundaries, making requests for change, and possibly letting go.
If you’re giving too much away, begin practicing the art of receiving.
Rather than avoiding pain, adopt the tools needed to face your feelings and change your story.
If you make choices based on future hopes, you start choosing from reality.
If your needs are chronically last, you learn to self-care and speak up.
Self-worth gives you unshakable courage and the strength to stand up for the life and love you want.
Once you know-how, with each step beautifully crafted and laid out, nice gal transformation is made easy.
You’re a smart and intuitive gal who knows deep down something needs to change. Stop getting stuck in the overwhelm of where to start and get the certainty you need.
What if I had the tools and step-by-step formula with all the how-to’s and support laid out for you… would that give you the confidence and courage to get started?
A FORMULA FOR LOVE that…
- Minimizes uncertainty and helps you courageously face the unknown with a certain plan
- Gives you the confidence to believe in yourself
- Heals the fear of loss, heartbreak, rejection, failure, and disappointment
- Up-levels your standards and boundaries without losing love
- Transforms how you feel and changes limiting stories and beliefs
This is where coaching comes in. The truth is we heal and grow faster through relationship. A supportive community with encouragement and mentoring is necessary.
THE FORMULA IS SIMPLE
To attract love, you must know you’re worth loving.
To be loved, you must love yourself.
To make love last, you must let love in.
Put you first step works because it rids Nice Gals of the anxious need to please and secure love and this up-levels how men see your value, motivating them to treat you better.
There is a process to breaking free and I want to share how to break the too nice and treated less than cycle NG’s get stuck in.
I’ve made it my mission to support you because forearmed with the No More Nice Gal Formula you will attract more than you believed was possible. (And create more than you thought you were capable of).
I’m the expert who experienced what NOT TO DO, and through persistence learned what TO DO.
I can proudly say, I am a recovered Nice Gal, who loves, feels worthy, trusts herself and who is manifesting big things. Can you say the same?
Forget dating strategies or where to find men! (that comes later).
Getting the guy demands you get Confident, Secure and Worthy.
Protect yourself from heartbreak, regret and disappointment: make an unshakable commitment to your happiness and fulfillment.
Let Self-Worth open you to an extraordinary life and relationship.
If you want me to show you a fast, easy, and heartache-free way to love APPLY HERE to grab an exclusive spot in my Nice Gal Rehab Love-Worthy Process.
See you on the other side of happy and loved.
Smiles,
