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You’re Worth Loving!

By Maryjane Kapteyn My message is strong and persistent: ‘You’re Worth Loving’. Life radically and beautifully changes when you know your worth. If I had felt WORTHY walking into my adulthood, all the success, happiness and love I desired would not have eluded me. I would not have endured so much disappointment and pain. I […]

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Nice Gal Secrets to Never Feel Powerless With Men

By Maryjane Kapteyn Do you work hard to get a relationship and keep it going? If so, I hear you! Trying Too Hard in my relationship past, backfired. All the ‘keep him interested’ heavy lifting sucked the life out of me. Pleasing him and securing his devotion took over all my thoughts and left me […]

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50 Shades of a Toxic Relationship

Fifty Shades of Grey hits theaters today and let’s be honest who doesn’t want to see Jamie Dornan steaming up the screen– hh ell OOO HOT! WHILE THE IDEA OF LOSING CONTROL WITH A MAN MAKES FOR A GREAT FANTASY, LOSING YOURSELF TO A MAN IS NEITHER HOT OR GLAMOUROUS.  In fact, it can be […]

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The Hook that Causes A Nice Gal to Choose The Unavailable Man

Have you ever wondered why you attract emotionally unavailable, flawed, needy, insecure or broken men? Being nice is the source of your attraction. The reason you behave too nice isn’t your fault. In fact, it likely feels natural to be nice; a part of your identity and personality. The same holds true for the kind […]

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‘The Energy of Dating’

It’s said you need to slow down to speed up, connect within to know what you truly want and love yourself before finding love. It’s true. 80% of how we show up is energetic, and only 20% relates to what we say or do. That’s because how we feel translates into everything; our body language, […]

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