It’s time to take a stand. Not just a stand against what you DON’T WANT, but a stand for what you DO WANT. As a love and dating coach – I’ve heard every kind of question you can imagine. It can all be summarized into one key question: What do I do when he’s… not […]
Ever had thoughts like this… “What is he gonna think of me?” “Will he be attracted to me?” “Will he like me?” “Will I look stupid?” Sound familiar??? There was a time when going on a date felt like an anxious high-wire performance. I would over-think my way into a frenzy trying to look good, […]
Nice Gals worry too much. We worry we’ll always be single and alone. We worry there are no good guys left. Then, once we meet someone we’re interested in, we worry if he likes us and if we’re good enough. We want him to be the one, to make things official, and marry us in […]
“The places where you have the biggest challenges in your life become the places where you have the most to give.” Tracy Millian It’s hard to feel confident with men when you’ve never done it before… It’s hard to believe in yourself when you’ve been knocked back… It’s hard to be assertive when you doubt […]
I am Canadian and like my fellow Canucks, we can be highly prone to overusing the word SORRY. Add in the Nice Gal thing, and a conversation can quickly turn into a machine gun of apology turrets. Saying sorry habitually without genuine necessity is submissive: a crouch, roll over, expose your belly reaction to avoid […]
How to end false starts, heartache and disappointment
to attract Mr. Right (without settling, being a doormat or trying hard.)